"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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C+F used out of whack?

Babnik

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I don't ever use C+F unless the situation seems to fit it.

Can you guys give me many many good examples of what you mostly mean by C+F.

I do it when a girl flirts with me, but I don't know how to do it out of whack to a girl. It feels a bit wrong, so maybe I misunderstand C+F.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Babnik

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rgeere said:
You might do it natually and not really realize it ...
Maybe, but I just want to make sure I AM getting it, so I want some examples!!!
 

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all the C+F stuff that i do naturally works great, anytime i try to preplan it, it goes kablooey.

basically, just think a little ****ier than you should, think you are the ****, comment on other people you should do fine.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chase Dat Skuht

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find Señor Fingers post in his weapons of mass seduction. He talks about all sorts of different C&F
 

Babnik

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So everyone knows about C+F and yet nobody can show good examples of how to initiate C+F in ANY conversation?

What if she is not real flirty, how do you force C+F in there?
 
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