"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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C&F in Australia

Ragin_Asian

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I've read some things about David DeAngelo's ****y and Funny approaches and how successful they are. Since most of the users of C&F are from America and I'm from Australia I was just curious to how successful C&F is in Australia as both countries have a lot of difference when it comes to women.

I'm currently doing a lil C&F on this girl at the moment and seem to be loving it but this is a one off thing. I wanna hear from other people in Australia who has used this.

By the way has anyone heard of an Aussie comedian called Guido Hatzis?? I think he has some good C&F lines but hes only using it for comedy. eg "women look at me and ask the waitress, is he on the menu?"

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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diplomatic_lie

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It works.
 

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Hoobie, a top-notched Asian Australian PUA, is big on C&F, outrageous behavior, and boldness. And his photo gallery rocks!
 

Ragin_Asian

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Should I have to make adjustments with C&F to tone it down for the skippy Aussie chicks or should I just do the same thing as it's done in the US
 

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You mentioned before that there are differences in demeanor between Australian and American women but there is a common denominator in what they are looking for in a man.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dont think it would work as well just because Aussie women are alot less hung up on playing the games than that of the typical American woman. I have been there several times and they have no problem initiating convo and are very pleased that a man shows a woman respect over there, like opening up doors, pulling out chairs or whatever. American women I would say use:
60% ****y and 40% funny mixture and for Aussie women go with a 35% ****y, 65% funny mixture. Damn I wish I lived in Australia
:D I love those women!!
 

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Saki, you're mostly correct...

C&F does work on Aussie chicks, but you are right, you have to be more funny than ****y. Otherwise they just think you are an arrogant prlck. If you are going to take the plss then you are going to get it back in spades, so it's all good fun. Though they do like confident men who take the lead.

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I agree with Cremasta.

When I just started to get the hang of C+F I used it too much and got the sense that girls found it annoying. In Australia use in moderation and no outright ****iness ("Damn I'm good!")

But remember all chicks are react differently no matter what nationality.
 
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