"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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C&F in Australia

Ragin_Asian

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I've read some things about David DeAngelo's ****y and Funny approaches and how successful they are. Since most of the users of C&F are from America and I'm from Australia I was just curious to how successful C&F is in Australia as both countries have a lot of difference when it comes to women.

I'm currently doing a lil C&F on this girl at the moment and seem to be loving it but this is a one off thing. I wanna hear from other people in Australia who has used this.

By the way has anyone heard of an Aussie comedian called Guido Hatzis?? I think he has some good C&F lines but hes only using it for comedy. eg "women look at me and ask the waitress, is he on the menu?"

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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diplomatic_lie

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It works.
 

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Hoobie, a top-notched Asian Australian PUA, is big on C&F, outrageous behavior, and boldness. And his photo gallery rocks!
 

Ragin_Asian

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Should I have to make adjustments with C&F to tone it down for the skippy Aussie chicks or should I just do the same thing as it's done in the US
 

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You mentioned before that there are differences in demeanor between Australian and American women but there is a common denominator in what they are looking for in a man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I dont think it would work as well just because Aussie women are alot less hung up on playing the games than that of the typical American woman. I have been there several times and they have no problem initiating convo and are very pleased that a man shows a woman respect over there, like opening up doors, pulling out chairs or whatever. American women I would say use:
60% ****y and 40% funny mixture and for Aussie women go with a 35% ****y, 65% funny mixture. Damn I wish I lived in Australia
:D I love those women!!
 

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Saki, you're mostly correct...

C&F does work on Aussie chicks, but you are right, you have to be more funny than ****y. Otherwise they just think you are an arrogant prlck. If you are going to take the plss then you are going to get it back in spades, so it's all good fun. Though they do like confident men who take the lead.

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I agree with Cremasta.

When I just started to get the hang of C+F I used it too much and got the sense that girls found it annoying. In Australia use in moderation and no outright ****iness ("Damn I'm good!")

But remember all chicks are react differently no matter what nationality.
 
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