Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
you'd need to drink about 100 of them before u really started to get pissed..Originally posted by bud_2005
Well if I couldn't find a buyer some night I might want to buy some. Note there is some alcohol in it. .05% alcohol in NA beer compared to 5% in most beers.
whats the deal with america?Originally posted by diablo
On second thought, if you're 18 - just go to a bar. All you've got to do is go up to anyone at the bar and say "Hey, can you get me a XXXXXX... here's the money, along with $1 for a tip... thanks".
Now you're good to go.
Don't go there.Originally posted by quest
whats the deal with america?
at 18, you can go into a bar with people who are allowed to drink, but ur not allowed to drink?
that SEEMS like a really bad system..
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
our system is we dont want all our young people dying in car wrecks, so they should stay home and drink beer in the basement or out on the back porch with grandpa like we have done for centuriesOriginally posted by quest
whats the deal with america?
at 18, you can go into a bar with people who are allowed to drink, but ur not allowed to drink?
that SEEMS like a really bad system..
Originally posted by diablo
On a side note, it's interesting to drink it - we gave it to one of our friends a year or two back without letting him know there was no alcohol in it... about 10 beers later, he was drunk as hell. Odd, but I guess there's a psychological explanation for it somewhere.
My former friend back in Maryland got 3 dui's and decided to switch to non alcoholic brew. He really does like the taste of beer that much, he just doesn't know when to say when, when it comes to being retardedly drunk.Originally posted by familyguyfan
What's the point of non-alcoholic beer? I mean, I do enjoy the taste of beer, and I'll drink it, but I don't like it enough that I would buy beer without alcohol in it.
And since it doesn't have alcohol, why do you have to be a certain age to buy it?
When you're in the army you can get access to alcohol no problem. I got a marine buddy who'd call me drunk from his base telling me about all the hookers they had dancing on their tables and going back to their barracks for "after parties".Originally posted by Vasko
i dont know about that, but whats really pissed some people off is that you can go to war at 18 and kill people, but you cant have a beer!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.