"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Buying non-alcoholic beer
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
familyguyfan
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And since it doesn't have alcohol, why do you have to be a certain age to buy it?
diablo
Master Don Juan
On a side note, it's interesting to drink it - we gave it to one of our friends a year or two back without letting him know there was no alcohol in it... about 10 beers later, he was drunk as hell. Odd, but I guess there's a psychological explanation for it somewhere.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
you'd need to drink about 100 of them before u really started to get pissed..
so if you start on saturday, by tuesday, you'll be drunk!
actually, i think the alcohol would probably leave ur body faster then u could get it in there..
good luck
diablo
Master Don Juan
Now you're good to go.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
our system is we dont want all our young people dying in car wrecks, so they should stay home and drink beer in the basement or out on the back porch with grandpa like we have done for centuries
:rock:Vasko
Don Juan
while you are drinking, you usually don't want people to think that you're drunk, so you start to talk a lot trying to be perfectly in control, in order to demonstrate that you are not getting drunk yet. when you talk non-stop for some minutes, plus you are happy because you are with your friends and you all are about to get drunk, endorphine is released through your body and you become pretty euphoric. so, even if you are drinking water and you think it's a vodka (you must be pretty stupid), after 10 glasses, you'll start saying bullsh1t and people will think you are drunk. this is also why it takes many more glasses to get drunk when you are alone, than when you are out with your buddies.
it's just my opinion
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
My former friend back in Maryland got 3 dui's and decided to switch to non alcoholic brew. He really does like the taste of beer that much, he just doesn't know when to say when, when it comes to being retardedly drunk.
*sigh* he hands out with a girl who I also knew and is kinda in the same spot he is but she still gets drunk. Those poor bastards, they'll never leave maryland.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
When you're in the army you can get access to alcohol no problem. I got a marine buddy who'd call me drunk from his base telling me about all the hookers they had dancing on their tables and going back to their barracks for "after parties".
I suppose the military should let them drink though conciderng they're working for not a lot of money and it's in their job decription to "eliminate hostile forces"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.