Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you'd need to drink about 100 of them before u really started to get pissed..Originally posted by bud_2005
Well if I couldn't find a buyer some night I might want to buy some. Note there is some alcohol in it. .05% alcohol in NA beer compared to 5% in most beers.
whats the deal with america?Originally posted by diablo
On second thought, if you're 18 - just go to a bar. All you've got to do is go up to anyone at the bar and say "Hey, can you get me a XXXXXX... here's the money, along with $1 for a tip... thanks".
Now you're good to go.
Don't go there.Originally posted by quest
whats the deal with america?
at 18, you can go into a bar with people who are allowed to drink, but ur not allowed to drink?
that SEEMS like a really bad system..
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
our system is we dont want all our young people dying in car wrecks, so they should stay home and drink beer in the basement or out on the back porch with grandpa like we have done for centuriesOriginally posted by quest
whats the deal with america?
at 18, you can go into a bar with people who are allowed to drink, but ur not allowed to drink?
that SEEMS like a really bad system..
Originally posted by diablo
On a side note, it's interesting to drink it - we gave it to one of our friends a year or two back without letting him know there was no alcohol in it... about 10 beers later, he was drunk as hell. Odd, but I guess there's a psychological explanation for it somewhere.
My former friend back in Maryland got 3 dui's and decided to switch to non alcoholic brew. He really does like the taste of beer that much, he just doesn't know when to say when, when it comes to being retardedly drunk.Originally posted by familyguyfan
What's the point of non-alcoholic beer? I mean, I do enjoy the taste of beer, and I'll drink it, but I don't like it enough that I would buy beer without alcohol in it.
And since it doesn't have alcohol, why do you have to be a certain age to buy it?
When you're in the army you can get access to alcohol no problem. I got a marine buddy who'd call me drunk from his base telling me about all the hookers they had dancing on their tables and going back to their barracks for "after parties".Originally posted by Vasko
i dont know about that, but whats really pissed some people off is that you can go to war at 18 and kill people, but you cant have a beer!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.