"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Buying jewelry

Von_S

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Vatoloco's latest post got me started on this...

Many moons ago I used to work for a company that sold loose diamonds and engagement rings. This wasn't mall store retail, this was high end, custom manufactured jewelry. The company had a 30 day 100% return/exchange policy, I can't tell you how many times we got rings back because the woman wanted either a bigger diamond or a different ::cough:: more expensive ::cough:: ring.

I have PERSONALLY fielded phone calls from women who called in to exchange a .98 carat diamond for a full carat. "Hrmm there's a mans name on the billing information but a woman is calling in, say goodbye to you balls my friend" For the sake of example, a paper clip weighs about a gram, .02 carats is 1/4000 of a gram. The difference in price between a .98ct and 1ct diamond can be $1000 or more, all things being equal, and even more if it's high quality stones.

Moral of the story: don't buy jewelry (especially diamonds) unless you enjoy throwing your money in the garbage. Anytime I see women gushing over an engagement ring or diamonds they get marked as gold digging b1tches in my book.

Just a tip for you AFC's who enjoy throwing money at women, next time I'll post on the TWO men I know who bought their girlfriends boobjobs and are now being motorboated by other dudes. :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Machina29

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I'm lucky

My GF told me if I ever bought her a diamond ring, or any expensive jewelry she would break up with me for being stupid. She'd rather we take a trip or buy something useful, and I completely agree with her.
 

European-DJ

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Machina29 said:
My GF told me if I ever bought her a diamond ring, or any expensive jewelry she would break up with me for being stupid. She'd rather we take a trip or buy something useful, and I completely agree with her.
Quality girl ;) !
 

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I know a girl who just got a $1,400 engagement ring...made out of quartz. It doesn't even have a diamond in it. A pawn shop probably wouldn't give $20 for that ring.
 
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