"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Buying jewelry

Von_S

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Vatoloco's latest post got me started on this...

Many moons ago I used to work for a company that sold loose diamonds and engagement rings. This wasn't mall store retail, this was high end, custom manufactured jewelry. The company had a 30 day 100% return/exchange policy, I can't tell you how many times we got rings back because the woman wanted either a bigger diamond or a different ::cough:: more expensive ::cough:: ring.

I have PERSONALLY fielded phone calls from women who called in to exchange a .98 carat diamond for a full carat. "Hrmm there's a mans name on the billing information but a woman is calling in, say goodbye to you balls my friend" For the sake of example, a paper clip weighs about a gram, .02 carats is 1/4000 of a gram. The difference in price between a .98ct and 1ct diamond can be $1000 or more, all things being equal, and even more if it's high quality stones.

Moral of the story: don't buy jewelry (especially diamonds) unless you enjoy throwing your money in the garbage. Anytime I see women gushing over an engagement ring or diamonds they get marked as gold digging b1tches in my book.

Just a tip for you AFC's who enjoy throwing money at women, next time I'll post on the TWO men I know who bought their girlfriends boobjobs and are now being motorboated by other dudes. :crackup:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Machina29

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I'm lucky

My GF told me if I ever bought her a diamond ring, or any expensive jewelry she would break up with me for being stupid. She'd rather we take a trip or buy something useful, and I completely agree with her.
 

European-DJ

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Machina29 said:
My GF told me if I ever bought her a diamond ring, or any expensive jewelry she would break up with me for being stupid. She'd rather we take a trip or buy something useful, and I completely agree with her.
Quality girl ;) !
 

Bible_Belt

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I know a girl who just got a $1,400 engagement ring...made out of quartz. It doesn't even have a diamond in it. A pawn shop probably wouldn't give $20 for that ring.
 
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