my girlfriend's parents was really mad at me because she told her mother that I'm fooling around and for being unfaithful. Can you give me some advice on how to deal with this? And I want to give her mother a present for her b-day and i want to earn points here, can u give me some tips in buying a gift for her parent?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
buying gifts..
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
can u give me some tips in buying a gift for her parent?
Don't. It's transparent and ineffective.
The only reason they don't like you is that they think you make their daughter unhappy. If you want them to like you, then make their daughter happy. That is the best gift that you can give them.
Don't. It's transparent and ineffective.
The only reason they don't like you is that they think you make their daughter unhappy. If you want them to like you, then make their daughter happy. That is the best gift that you can give them.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What does her parents have to do with the problem?
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He is just trying to be a GOOD son-in-law. That's all. Please don't do it. You'd probably make your girlfriend jealouse by buying gift for her mother. You never know what women think. You are better off buying giving the gift to your girlfriend.Francisco d'Anconia said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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The best gift you can give is the gift of great sex.djneo said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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I think his GF telling her folks that he's fooling around negates that.amoka said: