my girlfriend's parents was really mad at me because she told her mother that I'm fooling around and for being unfaithful. Can you give me some advice on how to deal with this? And I want to give her mother a present for her b-day and i want to earn points here, can u give me some tips in buying a gift for her parent?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
buying gifts..
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
can u give me some tips in buying a gift for her parent?
Don't. It's transparent and ineffective.
The only reason they don't like you is that they think you make their daughter unhappy. If you want them to like you, then make their daughter happy. That is the best gift that you can give them.
Don't. It's transparent and ineffective.
The only reason they don't like you is that they think you make their daughter unhappy. If you want them to like you, then make their daughter happy. That is the best gift that you can give them.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What does her parents have to do with the problem?
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He is just trying to be a GOOD son-in-law. That's all. Please don't do it. You'd probably make your girlfriend jealouse by buying gift for her mother. You never know what women think. You are better off buying giving the gift to your girlfriend.Francisco d'Anconia said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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The best gift you can give is the gift of great sex.djneo said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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I think his GF telling her folks that he's fooling around negates that.amoka said: