"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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buying gifts..

djneo

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my girlfriend's parents was really mad at me because she told her mother that I'm fooling around and for being unfaithful. Can you give me some advice on how to deal with this? And I want to give her mother a present for her b-day and i want to earn points here, can u give me some tips in buying a gift for her parent?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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can u give me some tips in buying a gift for her parent?

Don't. It's transparent and ineffective.

The only reason they don't like you is that they think you make their daughter unhappy. If you want them to like you, then make their daughter happy. That is the best gift that you can give them.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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What does her parents have to do with the problem?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What does her parents have to do with the problem?
He is just trying to be a GOOD son-in-law. That's all. Please don't do it. You'd probably make your girlfriend jealouse by buying gift for her mother. You never know what women think. You are better off buying giving the gift to your girlfriend.
 

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so are you cheating on your girl? Curious wants to know.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lately because i know that it will add a little excitement ...
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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amoka said:
He is just trying to be a GOOD son-in-law. ...
I think his GF telling her folks that he's fooling around negates that.
 
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