"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Buy clothes when you have a V taper

Mr Wright

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I'm getting increasingly frustrated when I go shopping because buying clothes is tough. I have a 42 inch chest and my shoulders are wide too, which in shops like Topman puts me on the large-x large border which is ridiculous because my waist is 32 inches and I have a good 6 pac. So any large clothes just sort of drop down from my chest and hangs, not really showing any sort of shape which is annoying because then I look like your average fatty on the street. I don't really fit into mediums because it rides up too high because of the width around my shoulder and chest areas, the clothes just feel tight and restrictive. Plus even if they are a little more stretchy after a few washes they naturally shrink a little and become almost unwearable. I always have to try on before buying because so many things just don't look as good as they can do which means I spend fücking ages shopping when I want to be in and out.

Is it worth finding a place to alter clothes or are there any brands out there that cater to the guys with V tapers?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Look for the terms slim or fitted in the shirt descriptions. Most top brands have these styles.
 

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I think it's because it's winter at the moment but I can't seem to see any.
 

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Van Huesen has what's called a Studio collection which is more fitted than regulars. Other companies do also.
 

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Try it when you have a 50" chest, 53" shoulders and a 34" waist...

If I buy a shirt that actually fits properly, the sleeves come over my hands. If I buy a shirt where the sleeves fit properly, I can't button the top button to wear a tie and I end up ripping shirts routinely when I make a sudden reaching movement.

Add to this that I have to buy pants a size or two too big because my legs and butt are so thick. If I buy pants my size within a day or two the seams on the outside of my quads will be ripped and the seam in my groin and the top of my butt will be ripped. Even with the pants a size or two too big my wife has to sew the seams up at least once every few months...

It's honestly pretty annoying...plus I can't show off my great butt in pants because there is too much room back there!

But I look amazing in thermal long john shirts a size too small and some nice workout pants, lol...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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