Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Buy clothes when you have a V taper

Mr Wright

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I'm getting increasingly frustrated when I go shopping because buying clothes is tough. I have a 42 inch chest and my shoulders are wide too, which in shops like Topman puts me on the large-x large border which is ridiculous because my waist is 32 inches and I have a good 6 pac. So any large clothes just sort of drop down from my chest and hangs, not really showing any sort of shape which is annoying because then I look like your average fatty on the street. I don't really fit into mediums because it rides up too high because of the width around my shoulder and chest areas, the clothes just feel tight and restrictive. Plus even if they are a little more stretchy after a few washes they naturally shrink a little and become almost unwearable. I always have to try on before buying because so many things just don't look as good as they can do which means I spend fücking ages shopping when I want to be in and out.

Is it worth finding a place to alter clothes or are there any brands out there that cater to the guys with V tapers?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Look for the terms slim or fitted in the shirt descriptions. Most top brands have these styles.
 

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I think it's because it's winter at the moment but I can't seem to see any.
 

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Van Huesen has what's called a Studio collection which is more fitted than regulars. Other companies do also.
 

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Try it when you have a 50" chest, 53" shoulders and a 34" waist...

If I buy a shirt that actually fits properly, the sleeves come over my hands. If I buy a shirt where the sleeves fit properly, I can't button the top button to wear a tie and I end up ripping shirts routinely when I make a sudden reaching movement.

Add to this that I have to buy pants a size or two too big because my legs and butt are so thick. If I buy pants my size within a day or two the seams on the outside of my quads will be ripped and the seam in my groin and the top of my butt will be ripped. Even with the pants a size or two too big my wife has to sew the seams up at least once every few months...

It's honestly pretty annoying...plus I can't show off my great butt in pants because there is too much room back there!

But I look amazing in thermal long john shirts a size too small and some nice workout pants, lol...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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