I've been trying to get with this girl I've known for a while. She just recently broke up with her b/f and has been spending alot of time with me. We've lied in bed and kissed but thats it. Everytime I pull a move she asks that question and I'm at a loss for words, so I give up. She keeps telling me how she wishes I were single and how shed totally fvck me if I were. I wish there was just something I could say to push me over that hump. Any suggestions?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
"But what about your girlfriend?"
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
WC2
Master Don Juan
What is this girl offering you that your girlfriend isn't? Obviously not sex. If you're still hooked on this girl, maybe it's time to rethink your relationship with your girl. I'm not making any moral stance, because I have cheated on my girlfriends as well (and most of the time regretted it). However, I've cheated on my girlfriend for random sex, not to lay in bed with another woman.
I know what you mean. Before I went out with my girlfriend, I would have tons of girls sit on my lap and flirt with me with heavy kino. Now, they still flirt with me, but they always say "You have a girlfriend" when I try to accomplish something more.......exciting
I agree with Leporello. If you get her aroused enough, her instincts will kick in.
I agree with Leporello. If you get her aroused enough, her instincts will kick in.
You guys are right. I figure I'll give it one more try. I'll slow play it and try to arouse her without getting popped the dreaded question. If it still wont work, I think im just gonna walk. Ur right WC2, if I'm gonna cheat it might as well be for random sex, not awkward sex with a girl ive known for 3 years.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Lie and tell her you broke up... its what females do all the time...LOL
She invited me over to her place over spring break (next week) to spend the night. And she told me to bring vodka. She said things like how she can't wait to see me and how I'm a great cuddler. What does all this mean? Should I still slow-play it or is it guarenteed sex? What do you guys think I should do?