"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She'll be back lol. This fight was a little different as Holly was more of a boxer while Ronda is more of the Judo type of person, but Ronda could never get as close to Holly to dominate her. Holly kept her away with those punches.

Ronda just wasn't used to this type of style.
 
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Who Dares Win

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I dont usually mock people coming out of a defeat but when it comes of her I feel to make an exception.

Everywhere from facebook to mainstream entarteinement it was about her being this or being that, able to beat men, cool, too cool for us and so on...there wasnt a single day without a c0cky statement from her.

But maybe Im a bigot since I dont find female professional fighters any cool, I find them the counterpart of skinnyfat men competing about who match colors better when it comes of clothes..
 

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Rhonda is the type who'll NOW work feverishly on her striking, especially kicking. It's been a weak spot in her reportire for a long time now
 

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Yep, people forget she won several of her first fights with a simple takedown-mount-arm bar, just basic jits 101.

Her boring fighting was ok for a while because she's hot, but there is pressure on every fighter to be entertaining. People buy tickets and ppv to see punches and kicks, not boring-ass grappling. Rhonda out-boxed a few weaker opponents in recent events, and must have gotten the obviously incorrect idea that she could spar with a champion boxer. I would blame her trainers for letting her get that impression. Her stand-up sucks. She looks like a little monkey bouncing around the cage. And it's her trainer's job to tell her that. All she had to do was take the fight to the ground, and she would have won easily. But she was too vain, stupid, poorly trained, or a combination of the three.

Last night was the best thing to happen to Dana White in a long time. He was creaming his pants thinking about the rematch as soon as Rousey started bleeding.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A truly VICIOUS kicker, (all types positions, either foot) is an extremely dangerous opponent. But it takes a tremedous amount of work and balance to be such a kicker. When your kicking is as reflexive as your eyeblink, you'll have arrived. Moon used to tell us that if we could not swat a fly with a certain type of kick, we should not try to use it in a real fight. I never got that, except for below the belt front snap kicks. :) But such are all you need, if you also have good hands.
 

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no, she's not. Just watch. She's never had the size weight advantage, she's fast, tenacious and smart. Now that she's been forced to realize her weakness, she'll fix it. She's got the time, money and incentive to do so.
 

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no, she's not. Just watch. She's never had the size weight advantage, she's fast, tenacious and smart. Now that she's been forced to realize her weakness, she'll fix it. She's got the time, money and incentive to do so.
Wow a nuthugger /labiahugger. She ain't all that my friend , without the jujitsu 101 she is nothing. I guaranteed you after this she will be beat every single time.
 

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The mistake I noticed most of all was that when Holm punched her Rousey didn't do anything of either parry, dodge, block or respond... she just let Holm ramp up the damage to her. It's stuff you learn when you first start training and a really basic mistake.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kirian Fitzgibbons, mma trainer:

https://www.facebook.com/kirian.fitzgibbons/posts/1516008378714762

For anyone to convince Ronda that she was a world class boxer and for the people around her to allow her to BELIEVE it is utterly ridiculous and shameful. This is not reality ...
And the delusion was so strong for so long... between rounds even her corner couldn't be honest with her... Either...because they were totally blinded by ego or living in the same bubble and they couldn't see it with realistic eyes or simply out of fear of shattering the champions frail veil of invincibility.
 

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She's not even that great. It was all just hype because she has a vagina. People are sheep.
 

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wanna bet? she's got the funds, backing, esperience. she'll change coaching and styles and learn to kick and strike much better.
 

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There's rumors right now that she will soon fire her boxing coach; he's been in bankruptcy court lately over unpaid taxes.

And I don't think there is enough time left in her career to surpass Holly Holm in striking skill, or at least boxing skill. I'd have her learn one Muay Thai leg kick; like Bruce Lee said, the one kick you do 1,000 times instead of the thousand kicks you do once, and then do what GSP did and go hang out with the olympic wrestling team. If Rousey could take her down at will, she'd win the fight. A good wrestler can beat a great boxer that way. But she's never going to be able to out-box a great boxer.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2-3 kicks would suffice to give her the chance to take it to the ground. anyone can see that she's no striker, so why kid themselves about it? she can still (easily) become enough of a kicker to handle a mere boxer.
 

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Yep, people forget she won several of her first fights with a simple takedown-mount-arm bar, just basic jits 101.

Her boring fighting was ok for a while because she's hot, but there is pressure on every fighter to be entertaining. People buy tickets and ppv to see punches and kicks, not boring-ass grappling. Rhonda out-boxed a few weaker opponents in recent events, and must have gotten the obviously incorrect idea that she could spar with a champion boxer. I would blame her trainers for letting her get that impression. Her stand-up sucks. She looks like a little monkey bouncing around the cage. And it's her trainer's job to tell her that. All she had to do was take the fight to the ground, and she would have won easily. But she was too vain, stupid, poorly trained, or a combination of the three.

Last night was the best thing to happen to Dana White in a long time. He was creaming his pants thinking about the rematch as soon as Rousey started bleeding.
Her corner should've instructed her to get her down. She took a bunch of damage trying to hang in there with Helm.
 

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eventually, you will always run into somebody who can strike well enough that you CANT just take them down. you MUST learn the standup game, especially kicking and evading/blocking kicks.
 

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eventually, you will always run into somebody who can strike well enough that you CANT just take them down. you MUST learn the standup game, especially kicking and evading/blocking kicks.
She should've dodged a punch and did her thing in getting in close and taking her down.
 

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The mistake I noticed most of all was that when Holm punched her Rousey didn't do anything of either parry, dodge, block or respond... she just let Holm ramp up the damage to her. It's stuff you learn when you first start training and a really basic mistake.
It's like she was just eating punches...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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