YawataNoKami
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
But she can beat Mayweather and men
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tenacity
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She'll be back lol. This fight was a little different as Holly was more of a boxer while Ronda is more of the Judo type of person, but Ronda could never get as close to Holly to dominate her. Holly kept her away with those punches.
Ronda just wasn't used to this type of style.
Ronda just wasn't used to this type of style.
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Who Dares Win
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I dont usually mock people coming out of a defeat but when it comes of her I feel to make an exception.
Everywhere from facebook to mainstream entarteinement it was about her being this or being that, able to beat men, cool, too cool for us and so on...there wasnt a single day without a c0cky statement from her.
But maybe Im a bigot since I dont find female professional fighters any cool, I find them the counterpart of skinnyfat men competing about who match colors better when it comes of clothes..
Everywhere from facebook to mainstream entarteinement it was about her being this or being that, able to beat men, cool, too cool for us and so on...there wasnt a single day without a c0cky statement from her.
But maybe Im a bigot since I dont find female professional fighters any cool, I find them the counterpart of skinnyfat men competing about who match colors better when it comes of clothes..
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yep, people forget she won several of her first fights with a simple takedown-mount-arm bar, just basic jits 101.
Her boring fighting was ok for a while because she's hot, but there is pressure on every fighter to be entertaining. People buy tickets and ppv to see punches and kicks, not boring-ass grappling. Rhonda out-boxed a few weaker opponents in recent events, and must have gotten the obviously incorrect idea that she could spar with a champion boxer. I would blame her trainers for letting her get that impression. Her stand-up sucks. She looks like a little monkey bouncing around the cage. And it's her trainer's job to tell her that. All she had to do was take the fight to the ground, and she would have won easily. But she was too vain, stupid, poorly trained, or a combination of the three.
Last night was the best thing to happen to Dana White in a long time. He was creaming his pants thinking about the rematch as soon as Rousey started bleeding.
Her boring fighting was ok for a while because she's hot, but there is pressure on every fighter to be entertaining. People buy tickets and ppv to see punches and kicks, not boring-ass grappling. Rhonda out-boxed a few weaker opponents in recent events, and must have gotten the obviously incorrect idea that she could spar with a champion boxer. I would blame her trainers for letting her get that impression. Her stand-up sucks. She looks like a little monkey bouncing around the cage. And it's her trainer's job to tell her that. All she had to do was take the fight to the ground, and she would have won easily. But she was too vain, stupid, poorly trained, or a combination of the three.
Last night was the best thing to happen to Dana White in a long time. He was creaming his pants thinking about the rematch as soon as Rousey started bleeding.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
YawataNoKami
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Rousey is just Lesnar female version.
A truly VICIOUS kicker, (all types positions, either foot) is an extremely dangerous opponent. But it takes a tremedous amount of work and balance to be such a kicker. When your kicking is as reflexive as your eyeblink, you'll have arrived. Moon used to tell us that if we could not swat a fly with a certain type of kick, we should not try to use it in a real fight. I never got that, except for below the belt front snap kicks. 
But such are all you need, if you also have good hands.
But such are all you need, if you also have good hands.YawataNoKami
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Wow a nuthugger /labiahugger. She ain't all that my friend , without the jujitsu 101 she is nothing. I guaranteed you after this she will be beat every single time.
AttackFormation
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The mistake I noticed most of all was that when Holm punched her Rousey didn't do anything of either parry, dodge, block or respond... she just let Holm ramp up the damage to her. It's stuff you learn when you first start training and a really basic mistake.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
YawataNoKami
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Bible_Belt
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Kirian Fitzgibbons, mma trainer:
https://www.facebook.com/kirian.fitzgibbons/posts/1516008378714762
For anyone to convince Ronda that she was a world class boxer and for the people around her to allow her to BELIEVE it is utterly ridiculous and shameful. This is not reality ...
And the delusion was so strong for so long... between rounds even her corner couldn't be honest with her... Either...because they were totally blinded by ego or living in the same bubble and they couldn't see it with realistic eyes or simply out of fear of shattering the champions frail veil of invincibility.
https://www.facebook.com/kirian.fitzgibbons/posts/1516008378714762
For anyone to convince Ronda that she was a world class boxer and for the people around her to allow her to BELIEVE it is utterly ridiculous and shameful. This is not reality ...
And the delusion was so strong for so long... between rounds even her corner couldn't be honest with her... Either...because they were totally blinded by ego or living in the same bubble and they couldn't see it with realistic eyes or simply out of fear of shattering the champions frail veil of invincibility.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
There's rumors right now that she will soon fire her boxing coach; he's been in bankruptcy court lately over unpaid taxes.
And I don't think there is enough time left in her career to surpass Holly Holm in striking skill, or at least boxing skill. I'd have her learn one Muay Thai leg kick; like Bruce Lee said, the one kick you do 1,000 times instead of the thousand kicks you do once, and then do what GSP did and go hang out with the olympic wrestling team. If Rousey could take her down at will, she'd win the fight. A good wrestler can beat a great boxer that way. But she's never going to be able to out-box a great boxer.
And I don't think there is enough time left in her career to surpass Holly Holm in striking skill, or at least boxing skill. I'd have her learn one Muay Thai leg kick; like Bruce Lee said, the one kick you do 1,000 times instead of the thousand kicks you do once, and then do what GSP did and go hang out with the olympic wrestling team. If Rousey could take her down at will, she'd win the fight. A good wrestler can beat a great boxer that way. But she's never going to be able to out-box a great boxer.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Her corner should've instructed her to get her down. She took a bunch of damage trying to hang in there with Helm.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She should've dodged a punch and did her thing in getting in close and taking her down.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It's like she was just eating punches...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.