"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"But I'm Married..."

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I have heard this excuse many times out of women when trying to pick up. Many men I know have heard this too.

But inevitably. I (or my friends) will see her with some lucky ba$tard who managed to get her panties off anyway. And they may not be so hot looking or acting.

So, what gives? I (we) seem to have tried numerous approaches to this problem. It's really sad when you see the guy and think, wtf?

Is this a Menstrual Cycle thing, or is there a special working pattern for gals w/such excuses?
I'd love to master this little tidbit of female thought patterns.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so?

you are trying to pick her up and she says she is married? she is lying

you guys didn't pick her interest, so to prevent any further contact she toss that.

also remember a taken woman will not mention she is taken, when she want something from you (be it a drink, atencion or sex).

or still you can think that is her hubby anyway, just move to the next girl
 
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Some women you mesh with others you don't, she just happened to mesh with that guy. I go through alot of women but i only invest time in those i don't have to "earn" or "maintain" their attention. If a girl is interested heaven nor marriage will stop her from being your c0ck holster.
 
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You are getting this line because she ain't interested. If you were Channing Tatum, I guarantee a lot less women wouldn't have boyfriends or be married, and you would be ready to bang Shakira's brains out if she wanted you.

If a woman wants something out of you, she won't do anything to drive you away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"But I'm married" implies there is room for negotiation.

A happily married and/or loyal woman will either say a polite "no", or "I'm married". It's a statement, not a rebuttal.

Beyond that, any man who deliberately tries to pick up a married woman---whether she is soliciting or not--- is an abject loser, a scavenger, and deserves whatever is coming to him.
 
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