"But I'm Married..."

[glass half full]

I have heard this excuse many times out of women when trying to pick up. Many men I know have heard this too.

But inevitably. I (or my friends) will see her with some lucky ba$tard who managed to get her panties off anyway. And they may not be so hot looking or acting.

So, what gives? I (we) seem to have tried numerous approaches to this problem. It's really sad when you see the guy and think, wtf?

Is this a Menstrual Cycle thing, or is there a special working pattern for gals w/such excuses?
I'd love to master this little tidbit of female thought patterns.

 

[Alvafe]

so?

you are trying to pick her up and she says she is married? she is lying

you guys didn't pick her interest, so to prevent any further contact she toss that.

also remember a taken woman will not mention she is taken, when she want something from you (be it a drink, atencion or sex).

or still you can think that is her hubby anyway, just move to the next girl

 

[BeTheChange]

Your first problem is that you regard men who get with these h*es as "lucky".

 

[Killakittie]

Some women you mesh with others you don't, she just happened to mesh with that guy. I go through alot of women but i only invest time in those i don't have to "earn" or "maintain" their attention. If a girl is interested heaven nor marriage will stop her from being your c0ck holster.

 

[nismo-4]

You are getting this line because she ain't interested. If you were Channing Tatum, I guarantee a lot less women wouldn't have boyfriends or be married, and you would be ready to bang Shakira's brains out if she wanted you.

If a woman wants something out of you, she won't do anything to drive you away.

 

[Colossus]

"But I'm married" implies there is room for negotiation.

A happily married and/or loyal woman will either say a polite "no", or "I'm married". It's a statement, not a rebuttal.

Beyond that, any man who deliberately tries to pick up a married woman---whether she is soliciting or not--- is an abject loser, a scavenger, and deserves whatever is coming to him.