"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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busy clubs/bars with 150+ people vs bars with 25 people

Borknagar

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Okj I go out a lot, like most of us. I've been usually doing my game in busy uptown/downtown areas. But lately, I've been visiting my small suburban bars.

In the last month, I've went home with 2 chicks, and 1 chick came home with me. This is at bars with less than 50 people.

Granted I've had several SNLs at the busy places but my % seems to be quite a bit higher at these smaller places. I think I know why that is and I'll post more later cause I'm damn hungry and need food right now, but what's everyones opinions on busy/not so busy places?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mike32ct

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I think a smaller or less busy place is better. The b*tch shields are lower when there are less dudes around. You'll find that the women will be more laid back, and even bored.

I think it gives you a better chance to properly game your target with less interruptions/distractions. The only tradeoff is less targets.
 

PDubb75

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Oh my god, smaller bars are so much better. So much easier to have conversations and actually meet people. And in my experience, the women in the smaller, laid back bars are higher quality women.

However, it's much more difficult to try to work multiple women, and there is always the risk of not liking any of the women there.
 

goodfoot

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I do better in smaller venues where you can actually isolate chicks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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