"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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busy clubs/bars with 150+ people vs bars with 25 people

Borknagar

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Okj I go out a lot, like most of us. I've been usually doing my game in busy uptown/downtown areas. But lately, I've been visiting my small suburban bars.

In the last month, I've went home with 2 chicks, and 1 chick came home with me. This is at bars with less than 50 people.

Granted I've had several SNLs at the busy places but my % seems to be quite a bit higher at these smaller places. I think I know why that is and I'll post more later cause I'm damn hungry and need food right now, but what's everyones opinions on busy/not so busy places?
 

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Mike32ct

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I think a smaller or less busy place is better. The b*tch shields are lower when there are less dudes around. You'll find that the women will be more laid back, and even bored.

I think it gives you a better chance to properly game your target with less interruptions/distractions. The only tradeoff is less targets.
 

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Oh my god, smaller bars are so much better. So much easier to have conversations and actually meet people. And in my experience, the women in the smaller, laid back bars are higher quality women.

However, it's much more difficult to try to work multiple women, and there is always the risk of not liking any of the women there.
 

goodfoot

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I do better in smaller venues where you can actually isolate chicks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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