"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bust Your Fear Of Calling Her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ALPHAROMEO

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always make your first phone calls at the same time i ve decided to make my calls at 9:30 IN THE MORNING

I SURE FEEL THE FEAR OF CALLING THIS CHICK
sO I CHASE OUT ALL NEGATIVE THOUGHTS I DON T LET THEM GET INTO MY THINKING


I THEN MAKE THE CALL


Doing it at the same time evryday or evryother day is important

Check out ZIG ZIGLAR or DIRK ZELLER who ve written about this concept no planning = no success

you have to make this appointment with yourself !!!!!


check out FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY JEFFERS

ZIGLAR ON SELLING ZIG ZIGLAR

DIRK ZELLER TELEPHONES SALES FOR DUMMIES
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You could always instruct her to call you. Cuts down on her playing games with you. If she's interested, she'll make that call. It also helps if you already have an activity planned for you and her to participate in.
 
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It's natural to be scared to call because your ego doesn't have any reference experiences when you start out. Over time, you will get those reference experiences through taking phone-calls you were afraid to take. Just do it, material on how to talk on the phone or force yourself to call at a specific time wont help much.
 
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This is very true. I hadn't called strange girls very much in the past 10 years and now after a couple times it doesn't seem as bad. I was a lot more casual and conversation came more easily than I expected.
 
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