"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bust Your Fear Of Calling Her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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always make your first phone calls at the same time i ve decided to make my calls at 9:30 IN THE MORNING

I SURE FEEL THE FEAR OF CALLING THIS CHICK
sO I CHASE OUT ALL NEGATIVE THOUGHTS I DON T LET THEM GET INTO MY THINKING


I THEN MAKE THE CALL


Doing it at the same time evryday or evryother day is important

Check out ZIG ZIGLAR or DIRK ZELLER who ve written about this concept no planning = no success

you have to make this appointment with yourself !!!!!


check out FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY JEFFERS

ZIGLAR ON SELLING ZIG ZIGLAR

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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S. Pryor

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You could always instruct her to call you. Cuts down on her playing games with you. If she's interested, she'll make that call. It also helps if you already have an activity planned for you and her to participate in.
 

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It's natural to be scared to call because your ego doesn't have any reference experiences when you start out. Over time, you will get those reference experiences through taking phone-calls you were afraid to take. Just do it, material on how to talk on the phone or force yourself to call at a specific time wont help much.
 

omkara

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This is very true. I hadn't called strange girls very much in the past 10 years and now after a couple times it doesn't seem as bad. I was a lot more casual and conversation came more easily than I expected.
 
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