"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bust Your Fear Of Calling Her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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always make your first phone calls at the same time i ve decided to make my calls at 9:30 IN THE MORNING

I SURE FEEL THE FEAR OF CALLING THIS CHICK
sO I CHASE OUT ALL NEGATIVE THOUGHTS I DON T LET THEM GET INTO MY THINKING


I THEN MAKE THE CALL


Doing it at the same time evryday or evryother day is important

Check out ZIG ZIGLAR or DIRK ZELLER who ve written about this concept no planning = no success

you have to make this appointment with yourself !!!!!


check out FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY JEFFERS

ZIGLAR ON SELLING ZIG ZIGLAR

DIRK ZELLER TELEPHONES SALES FOR DUMMIES
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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S. Pryor

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You could always instruct her to call you. Cuts down on her playing games with you. If she's interested, she'll make that call. It also helps if you already have an activity planned for you and her to participate in.
 

NorwegianDJ

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It's natural to be scared to call because your ego doesn't have any reference experiences when you start out. Over time, you will get those reference experiences through taking phone-calls you were afraid to take. Just do it, material on how to talk on the phone or force yourself to call at a specific time wont help much.
 

omkara

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This is very true. I hadn't called strange girls very much in the past 10 years and now after a couple times it doesn't seem as bad. I was a lot more casual and conversation came more easily than I expected.
 
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