Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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JustLurk

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Darth said:
Really, everything that there is to be said about getting women has been said already by someone on the forum. That should go in the archive (Pook's posts and those types of thing).

Here's what I would like to see:

1. ARCHIVE- Search here before asking questions (Pook's posts, the DJ boot camp, and the other standard material).
2. STORIES- Stories of your experiences with women (also known as "FR")
3. WOMEN'S DISCUSSION FORUMS- Has 3 subforums: High school, college, and working man.
4. THE WORKING MAN- with a subforum for "attire"
5. THE HEALTHY MAN- Fitness forum
6. THE MORAL MAN- Personal codes of conduct
7. ANYTHING ELSE

I'm sure this will never happen, but I think that this type of a forum would produce better (and more attractive) men.
+1. This forum really needs some more helpful information to balance everyone out, and with each person contributing a bit of what they know/specialize in, it could make a really helpful and interesting environment. I like the idea but I disagree with your details.. Something more helpful like advice to living your life outside of women, like the fitness forum but for other stuff, would really be interesting.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Julius_Seizeher

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I like what I see in this thread.

I have often been castigated for talking about money, business, and success here. I am passionate about these things, and I also see so much more potential in SS than is currently being realized.

I'd like this to be a place where we get down to the business of becoming extraordinary gentlemen, dammit our countries need us. Humanity demands that we create, expand, innovate, and prosper. And we should rightly demand these things of ourselves, for how empty an existence it is to merely wax philosophical on the animal biocentricity of human relations vs. intelligent morality.

I would like to see a series of forums, discussing subjects like

Personal Finance - money management, credit, debt, insurance
Business - startup ideas, finance, coordination, contracting, demand
Investing - retirement planning, philosophy, risk management, asset allocation, MLP vs. REIT, etc.
Networking - There is to be Honor among SS men
Hobbies - Introduce your hobbies and give inspiration to others

SoSuave has really done great work over the years, but we shouldn't rest on our laurels. Just as a man must constantly exceed himself, so should SS.
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
SoSuave has really done great work over the years, but we shouldn't rest on our laurels.
See any post by Poonani Maker.
 

HoneyHitter

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allbeef said:
See any post by Poonani Maker.
Don't know which thread/posts you're refering to. Please be a little more specific about what you mean.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HoneyHitter

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Lateralus said:
Wouldn't it be an idea to start a business forum, or at least a business topic so we can help each other and support each other with building our own businesses/opportunities?
+1

It would make this forum a lot more interesting and keep more valuable people sticking around. The addition of a business topic would surely create some balance on this forum and give off a more masculine vibe.
 

HoneyHitter

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Julius_Seizeher said:
I would like to see a series of forums, discussing subjects like

Personal Finance - money management, credit, debt, insurance
Business - startup ideas, finance, coordination, contracting, demand
Investing - retirement planning, philosophy, risk management, asset allocation, MLP vs. REIT, etc.
Networking - There is to be Honor among SS men
Hobbies - Introduce your hobbies and give inspiration to others
Great suggestions!
 

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Nope. I come here for one thing. I have other forums I visit for other things.
 
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