"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JustLurk

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Darth said:
Really, everything that there is to be said about getting women has been said already by someone on the forum. That should go in the archive (Pook's posts and those types of thing).

Here's what I would like to see:

1. ARCHIVE- Search here before asking questions (Pook's posts, the DJ boot camp, and the other standard material).
2. STORIES- Stories of your experiences with women (also known as "FR")
3. WOMEN'S DISCUSSION FORUMS- Has 3 subforums: High school, college, and working man.
4. THE WORKING MAN- with a subforum for "attire"
5. THE HEALTHY MAN- Fitness forum
6. THE MORAL MAN- Personal codes of conduct
7. ANYTHING ELSE

I'm sure this will never happen, but I think that this type of a forum would produce better (and more attractive) men.
+1. This forum really needs some more helpful information to balance everyone out, and with each person contributing a bit of what they know/specialize in, it could make a really helpful and interesting environment. I like the idea but I disagree with your details.. Something more helpful like advice to living your life outside of women, like the fitness forum but for other stuff, would really be interesting.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Julius_Seizeher

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I like what I see in this thread.

I have often been castigated for talking about money, business, and success here. I am passionate about these things, and I also see so much more potential in SS than is currently being realized.

I'd like this to be a place where we get down to the business of becoming extraordinary gentlemen, dammit our countries need us. Humanity demands that we create, expand, innovate, and prosper. And we should rightly demand these things of ourselves, for how empty an existence it is to merely wax philosophical on the animal biocentricity of human relations vs. intelligent morality.

I would like to see a series of forums, discussing subjects like

Personal Finance - money management, credit, debt, insurance
Business - startup ideas, finance, coordination, contracting, demand
Investing - retirement planning, philosophy, risk management, asset allocation, MLP vs. REIT, etc.
Networking - There is to be Honor among SS men
Hobbies - Introduce your hobbies and give inspiration to others

SoSuave has really done great work over the years, but we shouldn't rest on our laurels. Just as a man must constantly exceed himself, so should SS.
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
SoSuave has really done great work over the years, but we shouldn't rest on our laurels.
See any post by Poonani Maker.
 

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allbeef said:
See any post by Poonani Maker.
Don't know which thread/posts you're refering to. Please be a little more specific about what you mean.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HoneyHitter

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Lateralus said:
Wouldn't it be an idea to start a business forum, or at least a business topic so we can help each other and support each other with building our own businesses/opportunities?
+1

It would make this forum a lot more interesting and keep more valuable people sticking around. The addition of a business topic would surely create some balance on this forum and give off a more masculine vibe.
 

HoneyHitter

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Julius_Seizeher said:
I would like to see a series of forums, discussing subjects like

Personal Finance - money management, credit, debt, insurance
Business - startup ideas, finance, coordination, contracting, demand
Investing - retirement planning, philosophy, risk management, asset allocation, MLP vs. REIT, etc.
Networking - There is to be Honor among SS men
Hobbies - Introduce your hobbies and give inspiration to others
Great suggestions!
 

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Nope. I come here for one thing. I have other forums I visit for other things.
 
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