+1. This forum really needs some more helpful information to balance everyone out, and with each person contributing a bit of what they know/specialize in, it could make a really helpful and interesting environment. I like the idea but I disagree with your details.. Something more helpful like advice to living your life outside of women, like the fitness forum but for other stuff, would really be interesting.Darth said:
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I like what I see in this thread.
I have often been castigated for talking about money, business, and success here. I am passionate about these things, and I also see so much more potential in SS than is currently being realized.
I'd like this to be a place where we get down to the business of becoming extraordinary gentlemen, dammit our countries need us. Humanity demands that we create, expand, innovate, and prosper. And we should rightly demand these things of ourselves, for how empty an existence it is to merely wax philosophical on the animal biocentricity of human relations vs. intelligent morality.
I would like to see a series of forums, discussing subjects like
Personal Finance - money management, credit, debt, insurance
Business - startup ideas, finance, coordination, contracting, demand
Investing - retirement planning, philosophy, risk management, asset allocation, MLP vs. REIT, etc.
Networking - There is to be Honor among SS men
Hobbies - Introduce your hobbies and give inspiration to others
SoSuave has really done great work over the years, but we shouldn't rest on our laurels. Just as a man must constantly exceed himself, so should SS.
I have often been castigated for talking about money, business, and success here. I am passionate about these things, and I also see so much more potential in SS than is currently being realized.
I'd like this to be a place where we get down to the business of becoming extraordinary gentlemen, dammit our countries need us. Humanity demands that we create, expand, innovate, and prosper. And we should rightly demand these things of ourselves, for how empty an existence it is to merely wax philosophical on the animal biocentricity of human relations vs. intelligent morality.
I would like to see a series of forums, discussing subjects like
Personal Finance - money management, credit, debt, insurance
Business - startup ideas, finance, coordination, contracting, demand
Investing - retirement planning, philosophy, risk management, asset allocation, MLP vs. REIT, etc.
Networking - There is to be Honor among SS men
Hobbies - Introduce your hobbies and give inspiration to others
SoSuave has really done great work over the years, but we shouldn't rest on our laurels. Just as a man must constantly exceed himself, so should SS.
See any post by Poonani Maker.Julius_Seizeher said:SoSuave has really done great work over the years, but we shouldn't rest on our laurels.
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Don't know which thread/posts you're refering to. Please be a little more specific about what you mean.allbeef said:See any post by Poonani Maker.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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+1Lateralus said:Wouldn't it be an idea to start a business forum, or at least a business topic so we can help each other and support each other with building our own businesses/opportunities?
It would make this forum a lot more interesting and keep more valuable people sticking around. The addition of a business topic would surely create some balance on this forum and give off a more masculine vibe.
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Great suggestions!Julius_Seizeher said:I would like to see a series of forums, discussing subjects like
Personal Finance - money management, credit, debt, insurance
Business - startup ideas, finance, coordination, contracting, demand
Investing - retirement planning, philosophy, risk management, asset allocation, MLP vs. REIT, etc.
Networking - There is to be Honor among SS men
Hobbies - Introduce your hobbies and give inspiration to others