"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Business Cards
- Thread starter sega18
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She still keeps in touch so I figure she probably already had a man and just wanted to keep an option open, as such I give her bare minimum attention unless she starts taking some initiative.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Ended with a free drip to disney (her parents worked there) and alot of fingering and tit sucking in the haunted mansion ride
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
I've been thinking about whether or not to get some "playa cards" printed up, to use instead of my business cards, you know.
I sort of have a professional reputation to protect with my business in a way, so I don't want to be clowning around with chicks and damaging the serious image of my corporate brand.
But if I got some "d!ckmojo" business cards printed up, with my personal cell phone number and my player's hotmail address on it... idk. would it help to pick up chicks?
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
If you randomly approach women and say "here's my card gimme a call" without building rapport and comfort it's not gonna work. As an experiment Doc Love approached 500 women and gave them business cards. Only 2 women out of 500 called him.