"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Business Cards
- Thread starter sega18
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She still keeps in touch so I figure she probably already had a man and just wanted to keep an option open, as such I give her bare minimum attention unless she starts taking some initiative.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Ended with a free drip to disney (her parents worked there) and alot of fingering and tit sucking in the haunted mansion ride
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
I've been thinking about whether or not to get some "playa cards" printed up, to use instead of my business cards, you know.
I sort of have a professional reputation to protect with my business in a way, so I don't want to be clowning around with chicks and damaging the serious image of my corporate brand.
But if I got some "d!ckmojo" business cards printed up, with my personal cell phone number and my player's hotmail address on it... idk. would it help to pick up chicks?
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
If you randomly approach women and say "here's my card gimme a call" without building rapport and comfort it's not gonna work. As an experiment Doc Love approached 500 women and gave them business cards. Only 2 women out of 500 called him.