"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Business Cards
- Thread starter sega18
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She still keeps in touch so I figure she probably already had a man and just wanted to keep an option open, as such I give her bare minimum attention unless she starts taking some initiative.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Ended with a free drip to disney (her parents worked there) and alot of fingering and tit sucking in the haunted mansion ride
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
I've been thinking about whether or not to get some "playa cards" printed up, to use instead of my business cards, you know.
I sort of have a professional reputation to protect with my business in a way, so I don't want to be clowning around with chicks and damaging the serious image of my corporate brand.
But if I got some "d!ckmojo" business cards printed up, with my personal cell phone number and my player's hotmail address on it... idk. would it help to pick up chicks?
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
If you randomly approach women and say "here's my card gimme a call" without building rapport and comfort it's not gonna work. As an experiment Doc Love approached 500 women and gave them business cards. Only 2 women out of 500 called him.