"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She still keeps in touch so I figure she probably already had a man and just wanted to keep an option open, as such I give her bare minimum attention unless she starts taking some initiative.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Ended with a free drip to disney (her parents worked there) and alot of fingering and tit sucking in the haunted mansion ride
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
I've been thinking about whether or not to get some "playa cards" printed up, to use instead of my business cards, you know.
I sort of have a professional reputation to protect with my business in a way, so I don't want to be clowning around with chicks and damaging the serious image of my corporate brand.
But if I got some "d!ckmojo" business cards printed up, with my personal cell phone number and my player's hotmail address on it... idk. would it help to pick up chicks?
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
If you randomly approach women and say "here's my card gimme a call" without building rapport and comfort it's not gonna work. As an experiment Doc Love approached 500 women and gave them business cards. Only 2 women out of 500 called him.