I have been out with a jewish girl on two dates and yesterday we watched a movie at my dorm and got to third base, But when I got there the field has not been "mowed". In my head all I can think about is the messyness that I would have to see, so I decided to just finger her and make out with her. I kind of felt like she was wondering why I did not F*ck her. Anyway, She just laid there like a log and I guess, expecting me to do all the work. Anyway, What do you guys think about girls that are not shaven or trimmed?
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SeldomSeen
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RE:
thats their choice...
thats their choice...
vazeh
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one time i had this girl in my bed. topless and in short shorts.
and i was going to go down on her but i felt her legs and they was a bit of hair growth and i got turned off and just kept above the equator from that point on...
hair is a turn off for me
and i was going to go down on her but i felt her legs and they was a bit of hair growth and i got turned off and just kept above the equator from that point on...
hair is a turn off for me
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It's her choice, yeah. But she has a right to make an informed decision, so next time just say something (tactfully) and let her know its a turnoff. Really, this could be affecting her lovelife and limiting her options. You're probably not the first man to turn tail and run at the sight of her pubes, but you have a chance to be the first one to admit it.
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Hehe, this is quite the problem. I can understand you gettin' turned off though.
DonJuanMonk
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I don't like it that much, I prefer it trimmed or shaven. If they want some oral action they better do it. Oh and cleanliness matters too.
B-Lemond
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DAFS!
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agreed.
I would try to deal with the issue early on by asking if they think guys should shave their legs/chest etc.....then either she'll ask you what you think about women shaving or you can simply throw it into the conversation ("...so you think men shouldn't shave? I agree..but its definately opposite for women..blah blah")..be casual about it.
Another option would be to make fun of her (C&F style) and start saying that you bet she doesn't shave and how women who don't shave are really dirty...blah blah (in a funny way of course).
The third option is to just tell her what you like.
DonMEgaHoss
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Yeah the beared clam is a turn off...even when I see nudes of a hot woman and she has a wookie down there....Blah!
You could stand her on her head and put your head between her legs and look in a mirror to see how you would look with a beard...but thats when the benifits stop.... Eww jut eww..
Yeah I had one girl like that and I felt a curl or two when I was around the bikini line and I thought that was bad so I just fondles some boobies and made out...
I think shaving your chest is a no no... get irritated razor bumps and comes back thicker I think... From my experience. But trim those pubs back some
Seeing some girl go down on you to come back up with pubs in her teeth or her face disappears into the forest..
You could stand her on her head and put your head between her legs and look in a mirror to see how you would look with a beard...but thats when the benifits stop.... Eww jut eww..
Yeah I had one girl like that and I felt a curl or two when I was around the bikini line and I thought that was bad so I just fondles some boobies and made out...
I think shaving your chest is a no no... get irritated razor bumps and comes back thicker I think... From my experience. But trim those pubs back some
Seeing some girl go down on you to come back up with pubs in her teeth or her face disappears into the forest..
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Whatever floats her boat. Shaven does not necessarily imply clean, and nor does hairy imply dirty.
But I do think some red hair down there (a "firebush") is more of a turn-on than shaven.
But I do think some red hair down there (a "firebush") is more of a turn-on than shaven.
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Because you're proably from Europe.
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wavejams007
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lol
Good_ol_boy
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NAH!, it's the young guys. (unless you're realllly into 6 year olds!)
I don't mind at all about her crotch being hairy (even when it's REALLY hairy). I think it would be a turn-off just if she had red pubes, because I can't really stand it (don't ask me why, because I really don't know). I like it shaved, trimmed or hairy
spider_007
Master Don Juan
You mean she had a "BEN WALLIS":crackup:
i absolutly HATE THAT
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Jewbacca is a dead fukk.
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