"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Burn After Reading (2008) and Masculinity

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This is definitely a very overlooked understanding of this awesome movie, so I highly recommend watching the Coen brothers' Burn After Reading (2008), a spy black comedy thriller.

And from what you will see online, it's not about Trump, or a satire of CIA.

I propose that it is about gynocentrism. The Coen brothers have masterfully applied the implications of a female-driven, male-weakened world - where the men's decisions are entirely irrational, all ultimately for blind and utterly complete fulfillment of the women's goals - in a film cleverly disguised as a spy thriller about an ex-CIA analyst.

There is the one main takeaway, the gist, the overarching theme that binds this seemingly disparate film: weakened masculine identity in the 21st century.

I'm thoroughly surprised how no one has made this hypothesis yet, and I really hope you see the film to better understand what I'm talking about. Or read the plot, but that steals away the fear, excitement, and stakes.

This post is also made in honor of the 13th anniversary of the film's premiere at the Venice Film Festival this August 27. Or some sh't.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This movie was really great.

Once the sex machine comes out I mean the theme is on full display.

It's one of those movies you have to watch over and over, I've saw it like 8 times and I still marvel at it
 
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