"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Burn After Reading (2008) and Masculinity

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This is definitely a very overlooked understanding of this awesome movie, so I highly recommend watching the Coen brothers' Burn After Reading (2008), a spy black comedy thriller.

And from what you will see online, it's not about Trump, or a satire of CIA.

I propose that it is about gynocentrism. The Coen brothers have masterfully applied the implications of a female-driven, male-weakened world - where the men's decisions are entirely irrational, all ultimately for blind and utterly complete fulfillment of the women's goals - in a film cleverly disguised as a spy thriller about an ex-CIA analyst.

There is the one main takeaway, the gist, the overarching theme that binds this seemingly disparate film: weakened masculine identity in the 21st century.

I'm thoroughly surprised how no one has made this hypothesis yet, and I really hope you see the film to better understand what I'm talking about. Or read the plot, but that steals away the fear, excitement, and stakes.

This post is also made in honor of the 13th anniversary of the film's premiere at the Venice Film Festival this August 27. Or some sh't.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This movie was really great.

Once the sex machine comes out I mean the theme is on full display.

It's one of those movies you have to watch over and over, I've saw it like 8 times and I still marvel at it
 
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