"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Burn After Reading (2008) and Masculinity

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This is definitely a very overlooked understanding of this awesome movie, so I highly recommend watching the Coen brothers' Burn After Reading (2008), a spy black comedy thriller.

And from what you will see online, it's not about Trump, or a satire of CIA.

I propose that it is about gynocentrism. The Coen brothers have masterfully applied the implications of a female-driven, male-weakened world - where the men's decisions are entirely irrational, all ultimately for blind and utterly complete fulfillment of the women's goals - in a film cleverly disguised as a spy thriller about an ex-CIA analyst.

There is the one main takeaway, the gist, the overarching theme that binds this seemingly disparate film: weakened masculine identity in the 21st century.

I'm thoroughly surprised how no one has made this hypothesis yet, and I really hope you see the film to better understand what I'm talking about. Or read the plot, but that steals away the fear, excitement, and stakes.

This post is also made in honor of the 13th anniversary of the film's premiere at the Venice Film Festival this August 27. Or some sh't.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This movie was really great.

Once the sex machine comes out I mean the theme is on full display.

It's one of those movies you have to watch over and over, I've saw it like 8 times and I still marvel at it
 
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