"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bulking and Cutting

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Hi, I read that if you want to bulk and cut, you should do it in phases instead of at the same time. I'm about average weight, but I'd like to bulk up my arms, but get a thinner stomach area and lower body fat in general. So my question is, does it matter if I bulk first and then cut, or cut first and then bulk?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you're just starting, both can be done at the same time with enormous success.
 

Warboss Alex

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you can bulk then cut, then cut again then bulk, bulk some more, cut cut cut, bulkity bulkity bulkity doo, bulk cut cut bulk culk but bulker cutter culker butter... put your body through all those stupid cycles and take three steps forward and 2.5 steps backwards every time.

Or you can just train like an animal, eat like you're already 20lbs heavier than you're already are, make like a cardio bunny 5-6xa week, and time your carbs, drink green/white tea, stay active.. basically become a human blast furnace which with just a few diet tweaks can get you losing bodyfat while you're growing.
 

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the health benefits are numerous - go to google and you'll find a whole wealth of information. there's so many reasons to drink the stuff (or take the pills).

for body composition and training, it's a natural stimulant and a thermogenic, green tea extract is included in a lot of fat burners. white tea is a more potent version of green tea but it's also twice the price.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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