"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bulking and Cutting

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Hi, I read that if you want to bulk and cut, you should do it in phases instead of at the same time. I'm about average weight, but I'd like to bulk up my arms, but get a thinner stomach area and lower body fat in general. So my question is, does it matter if I bulk first and then cut, or cut first and then bulk?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you're just starting, both can be done at the same time with enormous success.
 

Warboss Alex

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you can bulk then cut, then cut again then bulk, bulk some more, cut cut cut, bulkity bulkity bulkity doo, bulk cut cut bulk culk but bulker cutter culker butter... put your body through all those stupid cycles and take three steps forward and 2.5 steps backwards every time.

Or you can just train like an animal, eat like you're already 20lbs heavier than you're already are, make like a cardio bunny 5-6xa week, and time your carbs, drink green/white tea, stay active.. basically become a human blast furnace which with just a few diet tweaks can get you losing bodyfat while you're growing.
 

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the health benefits are numerous - go to google and you'll find a whole wealth of information. there's so many reasons to drink the stuff (or take the pills).

for body composition and training, it's a natural stimulant and a thermogenic, green tea extract is included in a lot of fat burners. white tea is a more potent version of green tea but it's also twice the price.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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