European-DJ
Master Don Juan
I have this huge problem - buiidng up sexual tenstion. I really do not know how to make a girl go all cray.
- Any tips/threads about this?
- Any tips/threads about this?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Building Sexual tenstion . HOW!?
- Thread starter European-DJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NorwegianDJ
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Tons of kino
Eye contact
Not making out - Not diffusing the tension.
Lulls in conversation, where you stare deep into her eyes.
Sexual innuendoes
That stuff.
Eye contact
Not making out - Not diffusing the tension.
Lulls in conversation, where you stare deep into her eyes.
Sexual innuendoes
That stuff.
On a subconscious level you should already know how to this. You just have to let yourself go when you're talking to girls. If you lack the social skills the logical answer is to practice talking to girls until you're comfortable talking to them, everything will flow naturally from there.European-DJ said:
1) Get off this site...sitting down over-analyzing it won't get you any closer.
2) Talk to a girl..
3) Expect it to go nowhere & just freestyle it, regardless of the outcome.
4) Rinse...wash....repeat.
5) Keep it up for a while until something starts to click.
For reference, you can look up FRs(field reports), cold approach journals or read the DJ bible. However Step 1 will be the most important part of your progress.
RSanders219
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the times i've made a girl go all out are from just straight up hooking up.. just make out with her, feel her up kiss her all over and she'll start screaming for more 
.. It's not that hard of a task to pull off when you two are isolated.
.. It's not that hard of a task to pull off when you two are isolated."How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
bilboteabaggins
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sexual innuendos(after you know she digs you) work wonders, easiest thing there is...look into her eyes while you are imagining banging her, she will pick up on it
Create an obstacle during escalation or while using sexual innuendo that would prevent you from fvcking her or kissing her etc. or taking the next step in gaming her. The obstacle could be you don't have a condom,you have a gf, she'll fall in love with you, she can't satisfy you, you don't dip your pen in the company ink, it can be anything that prevents you from taking the next logical step in seducing her or her seducing you. You can ramp up the kino, stare in her eyes, get close to kissing her till your lips almost touch and pull back saying she's so sexy but..insert excuse and act like your in a dilemma and rinse and repeat till she begs for it or takes matters into her own hands or you cave after PLENTY of deliberation.
There are many creative ways to pull off sexual tension just gotta have a ready and willing woman who wants you and you want her but something just prevents you, holds you back and gives you second thoughts..real or imagined obstacle of course
There are many creative ways to pull off sexual tension just gotta have a ready and willing woman who wants you and you want her but something just prevents you, holds you back and gives you second thoughts..real or imagined obstacle of course
You ramp up the tension by thinking about f*cking her brains out while you talk about normal stuff. You look at her body without hiding the fact but you don't verbalize it.... when she's looking at you like she wants to bang you right then and there you whisper how you want to be inside her. Make her really horny but to KEEP it going for a while longer you have to have an obstacle, or reason why you can't f*ck right away.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.