European-DJ
Master Don Juan
I have this huge problem - buiidng up sexual tenstion. I really do not know how to make a girl go all cray.
- Any tips/threads about this?
- Any tips/threads about this?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Building Sexual tenstion . HOW!?
- Thread starter European-DJ
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NorwegianDJ
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Tons of kino
Eye contact
Not making out - Not diffusing the tension.
Lulls in conversation, where you stare deep into her eyes.
Sexual innuendoes
That stuff.
Eye contact
Not making out - Not diffusing the tension.
Lulls in conversation, where you stare deep into her eyes.
Sexual innuendoes
That stuff.
On a subconscious level you should already know how to this. You just have to let yourself go when you're talking to girls. If you lack the social skills the logical answer is to practice talking to girls until you're comfortable talking to them, everything will flow naturally from there.European-DJ said:
1) Get off this site...sitting down over-analyzing it won't get you any closer.
2) Talk to a girl..
3) Expect it to go nowhere & just freestyle it, regardless of the outcome.
4) Rinse...wash....repeat.
5) Keep it up for a while until something starts to click.
For reference, you can look up FRs(field reports), cold approach journals or read the DJ bible. However Step 1 will be the most important part of your progress.
RSanders219
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the times i've made a girl go all out are from just straight up hooking up.. just make out with her, feel her up kiss her all over and she'll start screaming for more 
.. It's not that hard of a task to pull off when you two are isolated.
.. It's not that hard of a task to pull off when you two are isolated.“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
bilboteabaggins
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sexual innuendos(after you know she digs you) work wonders, easiest thing there is...look into her eyes while you are imagining banging her, she will pick up on it
Create an obstacle during escalation or while using sexual innuendo that would prevent you from fvcking her or kissing her etc. or taking the next step in gaming her. The obstacle could be you don't have a condom,you have a gf, she'll fall in love with you, she can't satisfy you, you don't dip your pen in the company ink, it can be anything that prevents you from taking the next logical step in seducing her or her seducing you. You can ramp up the kino, stare in her eyes, get close to kissing her till your lips almost touch and pull back saying she's so sexy but..insert excuse and act like your in a dilemma and rinse and repeat till she begs for it or takes matters into her own hands or you cave after PLENTY of deliberation.
There are many creative ways to pull off sexual tension just gotta have a ready and willing woman who wants you and you want her but something just prevents you, holds you back and gives you second thoughts..real or imagined obstacle of course
There are many creative ways to pull off sexual tension just gotta have a ready and willing woman who wants you and you want her but something just prevents you, holds you back and gives you second thoughts..real or imagined obstacle of course
You ramp up the tension by thinking about f*cking her brains out while you talk about normal stuff. You look at her body without hiding the fact but you don't verbalize it.... when she's looking at you like she wants to bang you right then and there you whisper how you want to be inside her. Make her really horny but to KEEP it going for a while longer you have to have an obstacle, or reason why you can't f*ck right away.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.