"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Building Sexual tenstion . HOW!?

European-DJ

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I have this huge problem - buiidng up sexual tenstion. I really do not know how to make a girl go all cray.

- Any tips/threads about this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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NorwegianDJ

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Tons of kino
Eye contact
Not making out - Not diffusing the tension.
Lulls in conversation, where you stare deep into her eyes.
Sexual innuendoes
That stuff.
 

ovi789

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Well just stay clam and think that the person in front of you is the one whom you wished for the whole life then see what happens ...
 

Kirro

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European-DJ said:
I have this huge problem - buiidng up sexual tenstion. I really do not know how to make a girl go all cray.

- Any tips/threads about this?
On a subconscious level you should already know how to this. You just have to let yourself go when you're talking to girls. If you lack the social skills the logical answer is to practice talking to girls until you're comfortable talking to them, everything will flow naturally from there.

1) Get off this site...sitting down over-analyzing it won't get you any closer.

2) Talk to a girl..

3) Expect it to go nowhere & just freestyle it, regardless of the outcome.

4) Rinse...wash....repeat.

5) Keep it up for a while until something starts to click.

For reference, you can look up FRs(field reports), cold approach journals or read the DJ bible. However Step 1 will be the most important part of your progress.
 

RSanders219

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the times i've made a girl go all out are from just straight up hooking up.. just make out with her, feel her up kiss her all over and she'll start screaming for more ;).. It's not that hard of a task to pull off when you two are isolated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bilboteabaggins

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sexual innuendos(after you know she digs you) work wonders, easiest thing there is...look into her eyes while you are imagining banging her, she will pick up on it :)
 

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Keep your sh*t together. Stay cool.

Play with her.

Keep cool no matter the result.

Play with her.

Repeat.
 

Asasione

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Create an obstacle during escalation or while using sexual innuendo that would prevent you from fvcking her or kissing her etc. or taking the next step in gaming her. The obstacle could be you don't have a condom,you have a gf, she'll fall in love with you, she can't satisfy you, you don't dip your pen in the company ink, it can be anything that prevents you from taking the next logical step in seducing her or her seducing you. You can ramp up the kino, stare in her eyes, get close to kissing her till your lips almost touch and pull back saying she's so sexy but..insert excuse and act like your in a dilemma and rinse and repeat till she begs for it or takes matters into her own hands or you cave after PLENTY of deliberation.

There are many creative ways to pull off sexual tension just gotta have a ready and willing woman who wants you and you want her but something just prevents you, holds you back and gives you second thoughts..real or imagined obstacle of course
 

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you don't create sexual tension. it emerges when you're being friendly for a few minutes with a girl that is sexually attracted to you.
 

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You ramp up the tension by thinking about f*cking her brains out while you talk about normal stuff. You look at her body without hiding the fact but you don't verbalize it.... when she's looking at you like she wants to bang you right then and there you whisper how you want to be inside her. Make her really horny but to KEEP it going for a while longer you have to have an obstacle, or reason why you can't f*ck right away.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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