European-DJ
Master Don Juan
I have this huge problem - buiidng up sexual tenstion. I really do not know how to make a girl go all cray.
- Any tips/threads about this?
- Any tips/threads about this?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Building Sexual tenstion . HOW!?
- Thread starter European-DJ
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NorwegianDJ
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Tons of kino
Eye contact
Not making out - Not diffusing the tension.
Lulls in conversation, where you stare deep into her eyes.
Sexual innuendoes
That stuff.
Eye contact
Not making out - Not diffusing the tension.
Lulls in conversation, where you stare deep into her eyes.
Sexual innuendoes
That stuff.
On a subconscious level you should already know how to this. You just have to let yourself go when you're talking to girls. If you lack the social skills the logical answer is to practice talking to girls until you're comfortable talking to them, everything will flow naturally from there.European-DJ said:
1) Get off this site...sitting down over-analyzing it won't get you any closer.
2) Talk to a girl..
3) Expect it to go nowhere & just freestyle it, regardless of the outcome.
4) Rinse...wash....repeat.
5) Keep it up for a while until something starts to click.
For reference, you can look up FRs(field reports), cold approach journals or read the DJ bible. However Step 1 will be the most important part of your progress.
RSanders219
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the times i've made a girl go all out are from just straight up hooking up.. just make out with her, feel her up kiss her all over and she'll start screaming for more 
.. It's not that hard of a task to pull off when you two are isolated.
.. It's not that hard of a task to pull off when you two are isolated."She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
bilboteabaggins
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sexual innuendos(after you know she digs you) work wonders, easiest thing there is...look into her eyes while you are imagining banging her, she will pick up on it
Create an obstacle during escalation or while using sexual innuendo that would prevent you from fvcking her or kissing her etc. or taking the next step in gaming her. The obstacle could be you don't have a condom,you have a gf, she'll fall in love with you, she can't satisfy you, you don't dip your pen in the company ink, it can be anything that prevents you from taking the next logical step in seducing her or her seducing you. You can ramp up the kino, stare in her eyes, get close to kissing her till your lips almost touch and pull back saying she's so sexy but..insert excuse and act like your in a dilemma and rinse and repeat till she begs for it or takes matters into her own hands or you cave after PLENTY of deliberation.
There are many creative ways to pull off sexual tension just gotta have a ready and willing woman who wants you and you want her but something just prevents you, holds you back and gives you second thoughts..real or imagined obstacle of course
There are many creative ways to pull off sexual tension just gotta have a ready and willing woman who wants you and you want her but something just prevents you, holds you back and gives you second thoughts..real or imagined obstacle of course
You ramp up the tension by thinking about f*cking her brains out while you talk about normal stuff. You look at her body without hiding the fact but you don't verbalize it.... when she's looking at you like she wants to bang you right then and there you whisper how you want to be inside her. Make her really horny but to KEEP it going for a while longer you have to have an obstacle, or reason why you can't f*ck right away.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.