"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Building comfort?

I

iliketennis

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 19, 2009
Messages
300
Reaction score
8
What does this mean? Specifically, when you get a girl back to your place, how should your attitude and demeanor change? Any good reads?

I have a problem with being too forward with girls and I think it's a turnoff, maybe sometimes I make them feel uncomfortable with the things I say... any advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

H

Hakuna

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2010
Messages
139
Reaction score
12
Flirt / be playful. Don't seem desperate. Girls can smell desperation the way sharks smell blood in water.

Don't be to up front. Everyone WANTS to be seduced, it makes them feel wanted. But If you tell a girl "I want to seduce you," they aren't going to say "Yes please continue." Always point your conversations in a sexual direction, but that doesn't mean you should be up front and ask her to sleep with you.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top