"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Building comfort?

iliketennis

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What does this mean? Specifically, when you get a girl back to your place, how should your attitude and demeanor change? Any good reads?

I have a problem with being too forward with girls and I think it's a turnoff, maybe sometimes I make them feel uncomfortable with the things I say... any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hakuna

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Flirt / be playful. Don't seem desperate. Girls can smell desperation the way sharks smell blood in water.

Don't be to up front. Everyone WANTS to be seduced, it makes them feel wanted. But If you tell a girl "I want to seduce you," they aren't going to say "Yes please continue." Always point your conversations in a sexual direction, but that doesn't mean you should be up front and ask her to sleep with you.
 
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