"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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iliketennis

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What does this mean? Specifically, when you get a girl back to your place, how should your attitude and demeanor change? Any good reads?

I have a problem with being too forward with girls and I think it's a turnoff, maybe sometimes I make them feel uncomfortable with the things I say... any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Flirt / be playful. Don't seem desperate. Girls can smell desperation the way sharks smell blood in water.

Don't be to up front. Everyone WANTS to be seduced, it makes them feel wanted. But If you tell a girl "I want to seduce you," they aren't going to say "Yes please continue." Always point your conversations in a sexual direction, but that doesn't mean you should be up front and ask her to sleep with you.
 
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