"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iliketennis

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What does this mean? Specifically, when you get a girl back to your place, how should your attitude and demeanor change? Any good reads?

I have a problem with being too forward with girls and I think it's a turnoff, maybe sometimes I make them feel uncomfortable with the things I say... any advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Flirt / be playful. Don't seem desperate. Girls can smell desperation the way sharks smell blood in water.

Don't be to up front. Everyone WANTS to be seduced, it makes them feel wanted. But If you tell a girl "I want to seduce you," they aren't going to say "Yes please continue." Always point your conversations in a sexual direction, but that doesn't mean you should be up front and ask her to sleep with you.
 
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