“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Buddy needs a Wingman

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My buddy needs a wingman.

What are some of your best methods/approaches to increase a woman's attraction for your buddy?

That is without seducing her yourself...a way that deflects the seduction onto the other person?

I will start digging through some bible info to find wingman advice, but curious if others are successful at this and what their best methods are?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Talk him up, brag about him, introduce him and let him take over. But of course he ultimately needs to stand on his own two feet.
 
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phatboi408 said:
Dude, your buddy needs game. He will screw it up eventually. Sure you can help him but I agree "he needs to stand on his own two feet."
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I agree...you can only help someone swim so much...if they're not moving their arms then that's no good. They'll sink.

I told my friend he has to take this one solo -- he can do it.

However I did find this thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56188

The challenge as a wingman is to shift the attraction, eject at the proper times to let them build a closer connection..not try and swoop in or steal his thunder...

Reading the above thread gave me some insight into some of my past situations where friends either swooped the chick or c0ckblocked me...I would say MOST dudes will try and do one of the two...being a wingman has got to be an art.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A man has to be able to fly on his own, otherwise once the wingman walks away he'll just crash and burn. It's one thing to help him learn some game but another to be providing him with a crutch.

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The challenge as a wingman is to shift the attraction, eject at the proper times to let them build a closer connection..not try and swoop in or steal his thunder...

Reading the above thread gave me some insight into some of my past situations where friends either swooped the chick or c0ckblocked me...I would say MOST dudes will try and do one of the two...being a wingman has got to be an art.
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Which is why I've always flown solo. I don't know any dudes who can function as a good wingman and not let their own egos get in the way.
 
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i think the best wingmans are the ones that have just enough experience to hold their own and are inclined to learning how to improve.

you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink.
 
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The best wingman is a wingwoman.

A wingman who's better than you has better guns, so he can take targets down quickly, leaving you with little to nothing.

A wingman who's worse than you has worse guns, so he can shoot you, clipping one of your wings. Both of you lose.

A wingman who's on the same level as you MAY help. But someone is gonna lose and the loser is gonna clip your ass.

A wingwoman can amplify attraction to you. Why do you think guys go in clubs with their moms, sisters, aunts, and lady cousins? That's right, cuz they're women, and being seen with a woman is always good. :rockon:

Case closed.
 
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