Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Brunettes seem to be harder to pick up than blondes

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Which sucks because the bleach squad just doesn't attract me like the dark haired beauties. So far on my DJ quest the blondes I've been able to get numbers from far outweighs the brunettes 5 to 1. I've been getting numbers like mad, just not with the Charisma Carpenter looking chicks that I go for.

Do you guys think blondes are just more approachable because they have lower self-esteem and think they need hair dye to make them hot, and brunettes think they're smokin' anyway with or without it and therefore have a more arrogant personality?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think it is just always harder to go for the ones you really like. :)
It is a catch.
 

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I don't know about your Theory, but I also don't like the Pam Anderson, Bleached-Blond Bimbo look either.
 

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"the bleach squad just doesn't attract me like the dark haired beauties."

I couldn't agree more. Seems like every chick you see is blond (usually a bottle job as well).
 

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I go for the darker haired girls as well. I think they just have a tiny bit more shield up so they don't just seem like blondes with dark hair. :D

Just be a tiny bit more persistent in the beginning with them and you will be all set.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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