"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brunettes seem to be harder to pick up than blondes

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Which sucks because the bleach squad just doesn't attract me like the dark haired beauties. So far on my DJ quest the blondes I've been able to get numbers from far outweighs the brunettes 5 to 1. I've been getting numbers like mad, just not with the Charisma Carpenter looking chicks that I go for.

Do you guys think blondes are just more approachable because they have lower self-esteem and think they need hair dye to make them hot, and brunettes think they're smokin' anyway with or without it and therefore have a more arrogant personality?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think it is just always harder to go for the ones you really like. :)
It is a catch.
 

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I don't know about your Theory, but I also don't like the Pam Anderson, Bleached-Blond Bimbo look either.
 

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"the bleach squad just doesn't attract me like the dark haired beauties."

I couldn't agree more. Seems like every chick you see is blond (usually a bottle job as well).
 

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I go for the darker haired girls as well. I think they just have a tiny bit more shield up so they don't just seem like blondes with dark hair. :D

Just be a tiny bit more persistent in the beginning with them and you will be all set.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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