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tick37 said:
Alright that makes sense, but you are going off on these lectures and the thread is about broken condoms.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Broken contact..Set back...ugh!
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Alright that makes sense, but you are going off on these lectures and the thread is about broken condoms.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No not really. Everyone just thinks it is. It never is. More often than not, the person you leave to "go to the other side", moves on eventually..that drives you mad that she know longer fawns all over you, then the cycle begins just the same. You want what you can no longer have.tick37 said:
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Ooops..nervermind.. Broken contact.. broken condoms.. whatever.
You know I've realized something since coming here. I was a pvssy. BIG TIME! I had no idea what a loser I was. I'm a good looking guy, I have a great education, and a great job, but my attitude was all wrong. I thought I needed someone to complete the list. Guess what! I don't need anyone. I'm a little drunk right now, but I'm speaking my mind. I'm sick of the BS! Anyway...what was I saying?SunnyD said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I truly think you should end all contact. I'm looking out for your best interest because he has no respect for you. He's playing your emotions. Look out for yourself, baby. just take care of YOU.
Whew, I figured out what I was saying...
Whew, I figured out what I was saying...
I think I'm getting the sweetest "revenge" anyway. Not intentionally...but it just happened that I am becoming very good friends with a girl I work with. I did NOT like her because I was sure she was after him the entire time I was with him..but turns out my jealousy was directed in the wrong direction and he was likely the one after her. He used to go to clubs with her and tell me I couldnt come because I'd get jealous if she hit on him infront of me and cause a scene. Give me a break. I'm not like that at all..but I admit I was jealous of whatever it was between them and swore they hooked up. People told me they did, he denied it.
Anyway, not the point. He left our place of employment for another job, lost touch with her I guess along the way. He and I had our falling out, I had to work with her more and actually got to like her, we get along great and hang out now and I know people have told him. He probably thought it'd be a cold day in hell me and her would ever be friends.
I just remember reading here in advice somewhere..that the best revenge is no revenge, and becoming friends with his girl friends..haha.
Anyway, not the point. He left our place of employment for another job, lost touch with her I guess along the way. He and I had our falling out, I had to work with her more and actually got to like her, we get along great and hang out now and I know people have told him. He probably thought it'd be a cold day in hell me and her would ever be friends.
I just remember reading here in advice somewhere..that the best revenge is no revenge, and becoming friends with his girl friends..haha.