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tick37 said:
Alright that makes sense, but you are going off on these lectures and the thread is about broken condoms.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Broken contact..Set back...ugh!
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Alright that makes sense, but you are going off on these lectures and the thread is about broken condoms.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
No not really. Everyone just thinks it is. It never is. More often than not, the person you leave to "go to the other side", moves on eventually..that drives you mad that she know longer fawns all over you, then the cycle begins just the same. You want what you can no longer have.tick37 said:
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Ooops..nervermind.. Broken contact.. broken condoms.. whatever.
You know I've realized something since coming here. I was a pvssy. BIG TIME! I had no idea what a loser I was. I'm a good looking guy, I have a great education, and a great job, but my attitude was all wrong. I thought I needed someone to complete the list. Guess what! I don't need anyone. I'm a little drunk right now, but I'm speaking my mind. I'm sick of the BS! Anyway...what was I saying?SunnyD said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I truly think you should end all contact. I'm looking out for your best interest because he has no respect for you. He's playing your emotions. Look out for yourself, baby. just take care of YOU.
Whew, I figured out what I was saying...
Whew, I figured out what I was saying...
I think I'm getting the sweetest "revenge" anyway. Not intentionally...but it just happened that I am becoming very good friends with a girl I work with. I did NOT like her because I was sure she was after him the entire time I was with him..but turns out my jealousy was directed in the wrong direction and he was likely the one after her. He used to go to clubs with her and tell me I couldnt come because I'd get jealous if she hit on him infront of me and cause a scene. Give me a break. I'm not like that at all..but I admit I was jealous of whatever it was between them and swore they hooked up. People told me they did, he denied it.
Anyway, not the point. He left our place of employment for another job, lost touch with her I guess along the way. He and I had our falling out, I had to work with her more and actually got to like her, we get along great and hang out now and I know people have told him. He probably thought it'd be a cold day in hell me and her would ever be friends.
I just remember reading here in advice somewhere..that the best revenge is no revenge, and becoming friends with his girl friends..haha.
Anyway, not the point. He left our place of employment for another job, lost touch with her I guess along the way. He and I had our falling out, I had to work with her more and actually got to like her, we get along great and hang out now and I know people have told him. He probably thought it'd be a cold day in hell me and her would ever be friends.
I just remember reading here in advice somewhere..that the best revenge is no revenge, and becoming friends with his girl friends..haha.