"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Broke up with x 6 months ago been fb since on Thursday she's started seeing someone else what to do?

danny0001uk

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Hi all,

I broke up with my x 6 months ago been fb ever since meeting upto twice a week on Thursday night she told be she's been seeing someone else to use as a fb too.

What to do now? I don't have any other plates and struggling meeting women havnt been on any dates since breakup 6 months ago
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
 

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
It's hard to believe that some men live like that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
He's right. I want to add one thing - men who prioritize women, when those same females are NOT prioritizing them.. well... I wont call you a looser because I get it, but you need to focus on you. Make YOU interesting by having hobbies and things that you can talk bout with females! WTF are you going to say to a chick if you strike up a convo at a party? "im sad b/c my ex has a new man"??!!!!

GO, DO, BE!!!! What are you interested in? Who are you? join some clubs, go to the gym, etc.

If you want to find someone who values who you are, you first need to develop interesting thing to chat about when you meet females.

Once you meet a female that prioritizes YOU, then reciprocate that.
 

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Hi All,

We broke up in August, of course I have a life outside of a relationship it was me that ended it back then, since then we have been FBs and now she saying she has found another FB she said she cant be FB with someone she loves. i dont have any other plates or anything, we lived together while we were together and now im back at my parents and cant bring women home
 
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