"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Broke up with x 6 months ago been fb since on Thursday she's started seeing someone else what to do?

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Hi all,

I broke up with my x 6 months ago been fb ever since meeting upto twice a week on Thursday night she told be she's been seeing someone else to use as a fb too.

What to do now? I don't have any other plates and struggling meeting women havnt been on any dates since breakup 6 months ago
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
 
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Poon King said:
What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
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It's hard to believe that some men live like that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poon King said:
What do you mean "what do you do"?

What did you do before you had a girlfriend? Did you have a life? Did you have hobbies? Did you have interests?

Does your entire world revolved around women and having a girlfriend? If not.. then this is a stupid question. Go live your life and start spinning plates.

The reason you are probably struggling to meet women is because you are making women a priority. Men who prioritize women are losers. Losers are not sexually attractive to women.

Hope that helps.
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He's right. I want to add one thing - men who prioritize women, when those same females are NOT prioritizing them.. well... I wont call you a looser because I get it, but you need to focus on you. Make YOU interesting by having hobbies and things that you can talk bout with females! WTF are you going to say to a chick if you strike up a convo at a party? "im sad b/c my ex has a new man"??!!!!

GO, DO, BE!!!! What are you interested in? Who are you? join some clubs, go to the gym, etc.

If you want to find someone who values who you are, you first need to develop interesting thing to chat about when you meet females.

Once you meet a female that prioritizes YOU, then reciprocate that.
 
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Hi All,

We broke up in August, of course I have a life outside of a relationship it was me that ended it back then, since then we have been FBs and now she saying she has found another FB she said she cant be FB with someone she loves. i dont have any other plates or anything, we lived together while we were together and now im back at my parents and cant bring women home
 
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